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I grew up poor too. I still remember my 10th birthday I got my first brand new outfit with the tags on it. I still remember opening it. I still remember what it looked like. I guess you could say that was a pivotal moment. It was ugly and the kids at school teased me. My Dad built an empire with his bare hands and nobody believes me now when I talk about what it was like for the first 15 years of my life. I married poor too. My husband died unexpectedly in 2014, another pivotal moment. We were destitute. He had no savings or life insurance and $12 in his wallet. I was pregnant. My daughter had just turned 1 and the only gift she got from us was a toy I got for $1 at the Salvation Army. We lived in a house my Dad owned and payed the bills on. Now I am remarried to a hardworking provider, my now 4 kids are spoiled and do not even know the poverty I faced when the oldest two were babies. I still live on a budget and buy thrifted clothing but they are provided for and healthy. God is good. Seeking salvation, trusting and following him was the best decision of my life. Praying for your move to Cali! May God hold you and your family in his hands!

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The louder you shout the further behind you are in getting involved in the corrupt process to throw that monkey wrench into the gears of the machinery to perhaps, stop it.

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I too have come to this conclusion, also after years of being one of the ranters.

Building anything is difficult. Running a country is difficult. Making things work is difficult. Improving yourself is difficult. Talking, however, is easy.

Building and improving means people actually doing things. And yet we are being destroyed by talkers. But once you do things, however small, your world begins to change around you.

Our cultural destroyers want nothing more than for us to stay on our couch, our phone, our app and talk. Apathy and demoralization are their allies.

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